Thursday, December 2, 2010

Gratitude but a bit overwhelmed…

I so wanted to write a post on gratitude and thankfulness for the holiday.  Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays.  I love it because it’s simply celebrated for one main reason:  thankfulness. 

However, after returning from my “joy”ous weekend, it has been one thing after another overwhelming me.  Don’t get me wrong—I am SO thankful for every blessing in my life!  It’s just been hard to relax and enjoy this time.

This season is my favorite time of year.  Thanksgiving is so wonderful and then it’s followed by Christmas which is so festive with all the lights and decorations.  I just love it all.  Even the busyness of it all. 

This year is a bit different though and it will be a bit harder to just “enjoy” it all.  But I guess we all need to have one of “those” years,  right?

I just feel a bit overwhelmed by life, emotions, day-to-day things.  I don’t ask for sympathy or pity.  I just ask for prayers. 

Right now I can enjoy the holidays through the eyes of my little ones.  They always seem to be able to remind me of the simple things. 

I pray you are able to sit back and enjoy this holiday season.  Thank God for every blessing you have and remember the true reason for the season.

Blessings.

Girls weekend

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“Surprise!” 

And Joy just stood there completely shocked.

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Hugs all around trying to bring her out of shock.

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We were so giddy and couldn’t stop laughing.  Ellie is looking at us like we’re nuts!

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First stop, of course, had to be at The Wharf.

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And the beach!

We saw 10 or so dolphins right off shore jumping and putting on a lil’ show.  It was almost like Sea World—honestly!  They  hung around for quite some time.

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Ellie posing by the ducks.

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Ellie and I hanging out in the great big wonderful California trees!

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And then of course, the PAR-TAY!

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Open your eyes,  Olga!  :)

 

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Sisters 3 being goofy!

Monday, November 22, 2010

“Joy”ous times

About a month ago I received an invitation to my aunt’s retirement party.  As soon as I read it, I knew I was supposed to be there.  It was not an easy task though.  It turned out to be one of the worst weekends to try and get away with too many things going on. 

But no matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t get it out of my head.  I was supposed to be at that retirement party. 

Oh, and for those who don’t know, my aunt lives halfway across the country in California. 

Yeah, no easy task.

But lo and behold, both my sisters had the same feeling I did.  We were supposed to be there.

Why was it so important to be there?  Well, my aunt isn’t any ol’ aunt.  She is the queen of aunts, the frosting on the cupcake type of aunt.  Just saying she’s special isn’t enough.  She has been one of my favorite people since I can remember.  She will always cheer you up.  You always feel like she’s listening—and I mean really listening.  I feel like she’d do just about anything for me.  She’s who I call when I just need someone to listen.  And when I was a kid, I sometimes pretended she was my mom.   She even flew out for Camden’s 1st birthday party because she knew how special his birthday was for us. 

So you can see why she’s so special to me. 

We all—my two sisters and I—felt this was our way of letting Joy (our aunt) know just how much she means to us. 

We felt surprising her would be even better!  I think this was the biggest surprise I’ve ever pulled off in my life. (But I promise you, Joy, I will never do it again.)

What a weekend it was!  Joy was surprised—shocked really—and I think the shock didn’t wear off until two days later, but man, did we have a good time!  Six gals sitting around, playing games, eating, shopping, drinking coffee, sharing laughs—it was a GREAT time!!!!  One  of the BEST weekends of my life.  Really. 

I am so thankful it all worked out.  I couldn’t ask for better sisters.  I couldn’t ask for a better aunt.  I am blessed and so thankful for the special time we had.  It’s not often that you get to leave your cares behind and fly to California for the weekend.  I realize how precious it was and I cherish the memories.

Thanks to Tana for your travel agent “skills,” for putting up with my coughing and being a great travel buddy.  Thanks to Becky for seeing how important it was to be there and for bringing my niece to join in our weekend—she added to the “wonderfulness” of it all.  Thanks to Olga for keeping the secret and doing all you did to make it a success—I know it wasn’t easy.  Thanks to Faffy for also seeing how important it was to be there.  I’ve missed you greatly these last few years and it was beyond wonderful to share some laughs again with you.  And last of all, Joy….thanks for just being you.  Thanks for always opening up your home and making me feel right at home.  Thanks for never judging me and for loving me for who I am (even in those odd stages of my life).  You are truly one in a million and I hope you know how important you are to me.  I love you so much.

Blessings…

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This picture was taken at Camden’s 1st birthday party.  Joy surprised me by showing up for his party.  And I returned the surprise by showing up for her party.  :)

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

A rainbow

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Logan drew this picture today.  It’s the first rainbow he’s ever drawn.  It was perfect for today.  Exactly what I needed.

Today started out like any other day.  Busy with school, laundry and just “normal” every day things.  Then I received a call from my mom.  And the day changed…

A family from our church had been hit by a drunk driver on their way to school and the nine-year-old boy was killed.

The news hit me hard.  The sadness overwhelming, the tears coming fast, I couldn’t even say anything to my mom.  My heart literally hurts  for this family.

Maybe it’s because I have a nine-year-old boy, maybe it’s because I just saw this family last Sunday at church….I don’t know.  But the sadness was overwhelming.

My boys, especially Eli, had hurt and confusion in their eyes when I told them.  Why?  We don’t know.  But we can take  comfort knowing that he is in the arms of Jesus now.  It was just too soon for his family.  He was too young.

I am asking you to pray for this family.  I can’t imagine their hurt, confusion, anger that they  must be feeling. 

I pray they will feel God’s peace upon them.  Let them feel His arms holding them up. 

I pray for the little brother who has lost a companion. 

One of the first things my Eli said was, “Poor Bradley will have no older brother to look up to now.”  True.  But he also needs to know he now has a personal angel in heaven looking out for him. 

Pray.  Pray.  Pray.

As I went about my day today, I almost felt guilty knowing how much their day, their life had just changed this morning. 

Pray for your loved ones constantly.  Hug them, kiss them, love on them.   Treat every moment with  your kids as if it is a gift from God because, really, it is. 

Try to see the rainbow in your every day.

Blessings to you and your family.  Go with God.

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This is the story.  The mom was Eli’s Sunday school teacher.  The little boy, Carter, sat next to Eli many Sundays in class.  He will be greatly missed. 

http://www.620wtmj.com/news/local/108529909.html

Sunday, November 14, 2010

The boys

A quick update on each of the boys:

Isaac:  He’s officially out of the “lay low” phase from getting his tonsils and adenoids out and he is so happy about that.  The first week he was really out on the couch.  It literally took him a full week to even feel well enough to  be off the couch.  He also could not eat ANY foods for two weeks, not even the soft ones.  He’s happy to be eating food again.  However, he still cannot breathe out of his nose.  Immediately after surgery his nose was clear.  In fact,  it’s one of the first things he said to me afterwards, but that only lasted a few days and now it’s back to what it was.  I’m not sure what this means.  He has his follow-up appointment on the 22nd so we’ll see what doc says.  He also wakes up each morning since surgery with a headache.  Not sure what that means either or if it’s even related.

Otherwise, Isaac is growing into such a young “man.”  He’s only 11, but some days I feel like he’s going on 15.  He is now considered a “junior higher” and that  just blows my mind.  How can that be? 

He does wonderfully with his school, always willing to attack what’s next and get it done.  He enjoys reading and my biggest challenge is keeping the house stocked with books that interest him. 

He loves to babysit his younger brothers and this is such a huge help to me, especially when I just need to run out for this or that or even to run out with just one or two kids. 

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Eli:  He has just finished his second season in soccer.  He loves it and I have to admit, he’s quite good at it.  This year was a bit more challenging because he’s at an older level so there’s more rules and stuff.  The first part of the season was tough, but he kept with it.  The team started the season losing most of their games, but it didn’t take long before they found what worked for them and then they were winning games.  He made some great friends too.

Eli is doing well with school, but it’s a bit more challenging for him.  School always has been for him though.  Part of it is because he doesn’t want to sit and do school.  He’d much rather be moving, moving, moving.  I suspect there are other issues with Eli’s learning, but I do not want to put any labels on him so we move forward with much prayer.  He has come a long way and I am so proud of him.  His favorite subject is math and for some reason the numbers are a natural thing for him.  He can do so much in his head.

Eli is usually  never sitting still.  And because sports are on our TV most of the time, he can never just sit and watch a game. He has to reenact it.  Most of the time this drives me nuts—him always throwing the ball, jumping to get it and then falling to the ground—but I know some day I will miss this constant action so I try to withstand it.

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Logan:  Oh Logan!  What little handful my Logan is!  I love him dearly, but my oh my!  We recently watched Dennis the Menace (great movie!), but I realized that we have our own Dennis the Menace—Logan.  He doesn’t do things necessarily to be naughty; he’s just curious.  Kind of like Curious George.  It’s his curiousity that gets him into trouble.  Like what will happen if I plug the sink and fill it up all the way with water? Will it really overflow?  Or if I dangle this string in by the guinea pig, she won’t really bite it, will she?  Or what if I dip my brother’s favorite hat in the toilet to clean it?

I constantly have to keep my eye on him, just in case.  What worries me the most is that he has a little sidekick.  Camden does everything Logan does.  So I may end up with two little Dennis the Menaces.   Yikes!  Prayer, prayer and more prayers!

On his good days, Logan loves to help me in the kitchen.  He is constantly pulling up the chair to help me bake something, make lunch or dinner, or even just to pick out his cereal in the morning.  He loves to read books.  Every night we read bedtime stories and I look forward to this time so much.  Just me and Logan (with Camden running around nearby) snuggling together with a good book.

Logan reminds me very  much of his dad.  He has my looks but his dad’s personality.  He loves to make others laugh and is always trying to tell some kind of story, joke, whatever to make his brothers laugh.  This can be funny at times and kind of annoying at other times.  Being all boy, some of his jokes focus on potty, poop or the like and that  drives me nuts.

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Camden:  My little Camden.  What a little journey he has been on.  As far as I can tell, his reflux is better.  He recently caught a simple cold and it was the first time it didn’t disrupt his sleep or turn into something worse.  Praise God!  I no longer have to take him to the chiropractor every week or more.  I take him once a month.  He still has the allergies and skin issues (yeast issues), but he’s made great improvement.  Just last night Logan and Camden were pretending to be cows and they were on all fours crawling around.  I looked at Camden and said, “I remember when that’s all we wanted you to do so badly.”  He now crawls!  It’s a bit slower, almost as if his mind really has to think about his actions, but he crawls.

He’s two and I definitely know it.  He copies just about everything that Logan does, which is good some days and not so good other days.  He is the youngest but can definitely stand up for himself.  He is putting so many words together and I love to hear him talking. 

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Despite our struggles, I love my family.  I am so very thankful for each of them and all the individual personalities God has given them. 

Blessings.

Friday, November 12, 2010

Mom of boys

It hit me the other day that I truly am a mom of all boys.  I was talking with Josh and mentioned some things that had happened in our day.  These were things that to someone with all girls or someone with no kids at all, they would be appalled at.  Probably even think something is seriously wrong with us.  But to me, it was just “life.”

Here are a few examples:

One boy stabbing another boy in the head with a pencil.

One boy coming inside to change his shoes because another boy peed on them.

One boy upset because another boy dipped his favorite hat in the toilet water.

One boy stabbing a fork through his thumb.

One boy pushing a chair over to stove  to “help” and burning his hand.

Yep, normal stuff.

“I can do ALL things through Christ who gives me strength,” right?

Seriously, I love these boys to the moon and back and I wouldn’t trade them for anything.

(However, a little break, on the other hand, wouldn’t be so bad.)

Busyness

Dear Faithful Readers,

Well, that is if I have any faithful readers left. 

Life has been crazy.  Work has doubled for me, homeschooling is still a priority and my kiddos need almost constant supervision (well, the two young ones). 

I was blessed with some down time this week though.  Tuesday morning I finished up the last job and breathed a sigh of relief.  I "*thought* I had just that day “off,” so I promised myself to use it wisely.  That one day turned into three days off and I have caught up on so much neglected stuff around the house.  I was even able to fit in some shopping, a hair appointment and some baking!  It’s been wonderful. 

I know so many of you struggle with the demands of life.  There’s one thing I’ve learned through my busyness the last few months.  If you can keep God at the center, it will all work out.  Wake up each morning and ask God to show you what to do, what is the most important, what HE wants YOU to accomplish in the day.  Your day will go much smoother.

“A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps.”  Proverbs 16:9

I love that verse.  It is such a reminder to us that we do need to seek Him with every decision we make.

Despite your busyness, you can’t just “go through the motions.”  Live a life of faith by praying that God will guide your heart and mind.  Then he will direct your actions.

In the midst of your busyness, God is still there.

With that said, I apologize for my lack of  posts.  So many of  you have shared with me how much you enjoy this blog and how blessed you have been at some point.  I am sorry for  my neglect.  I will continue writing, even if it’s only a few words.

Blessings.